Trauma and Neglect

The blog includes articles I have written over the last few years, as well as a weekly post  where I share what’s on my mind, even if it’s an undeveloped idea that popped up when I was stirring a vat of cheese! 

Language Arts: Neglect, Triggers, Dissociation

Back when I was in grade school, English class, or classes centered on writing, spelling and literature, were lumped together under the umbrella title of “Language Arts.” What an odd and interesting

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Giving Thanks: Peace, Food, Gratitude

I’m still working through the hefty tome of Jim Thorpe’s biography. It is so much more than an athlete’s personal story. It is an education about the Native people in the US,

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Gerontocracy: Stepping Aside, Intergenerational Transmission, Mindfulness

The other morning, I learned a new word. I was elbow-deep in bagel dough in the wee hours. Admittedly I love those awesomely silent insomniac hours when everyone in their right mind

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Perfectly Natural: Visibility, Failure, Winning and Losing

I remember the first book about anorexia I ever found in my desperate search for help. It was called Addiction to Perfection. It was useless like everything else, but it was slim

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Control-Alt-Delete: Fear, Freeze, Vanish

I am a hardcore Mac person. I really wish Steve Jobs had not died so soon. Yes, I know he was not a nice person, certainly not to his employees or his

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Base Layer: Weaving, Warmth, Secure

Sometimes, I feel like the mythical cat who lives nine lives as I think back on my various incarnations, which sometimes seem as if they were not me but someone else. Probably

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The Dilemma and the Diaspora: Refuge, Regulation… Again, Wisdom

Sometimes I wonder if you get tired of my invoking the Stone Age of psychotherapy or the trauma field. I find my mind so often drifting back in time to when I

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One on Two Thousand: Outsides, Traumatic Memory, Cultural Neglect

Although for years I could not make a go of relationships, I would not exactly say I was friendless. I had a cadre of not-exactly imaginary friends. Perhaps you would call them

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Silencers: Lost Time, Quiet, Voice

Last week I lost my watch. I hate losing things, and I rarely do, having ferocious OCD rituals of rigidly keeping things “always” in the same designated places. Usually, it is my

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The Trauma of Neglect: Identifying and Treating it in Therapy