
Jealousy: Siblings, Transitions, Repair
It is a new year, and I thought it would be fitting to start us off with a “feel-good” blog. You might ask “feel good?
The blog includes articles I have written over the last few years, as well as a weekly post where I share what’s on my mind, even if it’s an undeveloped idea that popped up when I was stirring a vat of cheese!

It is a new year, and I thought it would be fitting to start us off with a “feel-good” blog. You might ask “feel good?

When I heard that my tech team is out for a hard-earned vacation next week, I realized I would not be able to send out

One of my few childhood memories is from when I was probably not quite three years old. We were on some sort of family outing,

Growing up I wondered if everyone has a constant musical backbeat playing in their heads like I do, a DJ who never takes a day

I rarely work with eating disorders, if I can help it. My own history was so painful, shame-ridden and protracted, that I fear I will

When I asked one of my esteemed colleagues at the Transform Trauma Oxford 2025 Conference if he would be in the Bay Area (where I

Certain words I have torn out of my personal lexicon and just tossed. One of those is “stuck.” It is not allowed in my office

Way back when I was in graduate school, which seems like eons ago (it was the middle 1980’s), I studied the work of an attachment

When I was in ninth grade, my English class planned a field trip to the theater to see Henrik Ibsen’s A Doll’s House. Strange how

I remember the first time I went to New Orleans. It was probably 2000 or thereabouts, for a sex therapy conference. What a perfect venue