Neurofeedback

The blog includes articles I have written over the last few years, as well as a weekly post where I share what’s on my mind, even if it’s an undeveloped idea that popped up when I was stirring a vat of cheese!

Fields: Energy, Transformation, Transcendence

Warning, this blog contains subject matter that may be disturbing to some readers. My best friend in kindergarten was Robin Fields. What a great name! She recently popped into my mind out

Half the Sky: Valor, Grief, Transformation

Back when I was in college, I remember the Maoists used to say, “Women hold up half the sky.” Although I was never a Maoist, I always loved this image of women,

Sex Positive: Climate Change, “Drudgery and Begrudgery,” Magnificence

Anyone who has known me more than a minute has heard me, probably ad nauseum, reference the renowned relationship researcher John Gottman. Gottman, originally an MIT-trained mathematician, changed direction to a study

Therapeutic What? ET, Attachment Trauma, Care

What a strange and wacky concept, finding and hiring a stranger with certain credentials, telling them everything about myself, and paying them huge amounts of money to sit and listen to me.

Golden: Says Who? Gray Hair, Cheese

Recently I read a brief story about California Senator Dianne Feinstein, a recent target of loud complaints about “cognitive decline” due to her advanced age of 88. Feinstein equally loudly and vehemently

What’s In Your Head? Tabu Busting, Myth Busting, Feeling Alive

I remember once hearing someone say at a sex therapy conference, “Everyone, absolutely everyone you see walking down the street, has a sex life.” At first, a trite, mundane, rather obvious remark

Labor and Delivery

Feedback, Sound, and Anticipation Although I am not a mom, I somehow have an image of a small overnight bag, standing by the door. I don’t know if it is an actual

Old Dog New Tricks: Enter Neurofeedback

“Attachment is the fundamental drive in human beings. It is a drive that brings aggression and sexuality to its defense and to its enhancement, and it is the precursor to human love.

The Neuro Files: Innovations in Brain-Based Trauma Treatment

One of the astonishing things about entering my sixth decade, or what I fondly refer to as my “low six figures,” is hearing myself refer to life events from 30 and 40

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