developmental trauma

Women’s Month Tribute to Betty Dodson

Remembering The “Orgasm Doctor”: Women’s Month Tribute to Betty Dodson

Many children of neglect, in their dark, lonely, scared hyperarousal, discover masturbation as a source of comfort, regulation or simply a way to get to sleep. Many are quite young and make the discovery well before they have any idea what they are doing.  They might before very long, get “caught” and reprimanded; or learn […]

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adoption

A Basket in the Bulrushes: “Real Mothers” Affiliation and Reproductive Justice

I recently heard a story where a self-identified Aboriginal woman in Australia learned that she was adopted when she was a teenager. “I always wondered why my mom was so mean to me, treated me differently from the other kids. I did look different from the rest of the family but discovered it was because

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trauma

Nevermind

Ignoring, Forgetting and Denying Driving to work one day last month, I heard a snippet of news about a young man named Spencer Elden, now 30 years old, suing Nirvana and Kurt Cobain’s estate for a 1991 photograph of him, taken and used without his consent. He was a four-month-old infant then, he was naked,

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