In the course of my years as a couples therapist, I gradually
noticed that virtually all of the couples who came through my doors seemed to wrangle with the same sticky question. They might think their problem was parenting or sex, money or communication, but it really boiled down to this:

– Do I have to give up me to have you?

– Do I have to give you up to really be myself?

– Might it ever be possible for each of us to be ourselves, unique, distinct, and connected?

* This e-book is an excerpt from Ruth Cohn’s 1st book: Coming Home to Passion